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Old Feb 05, 2011, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted by googley
Trying to figure out the right thing to say..... is so hard.
(((googley))) It doesn't have to be the right thing to say.... does it? That sounds like a lot of pressue you are putting on yourself. However it comes out is fine

To answer the question of your post, yes I often struggle with starting something and then freezing up. We try to explore it and I'm getting better at it, but it's hard. Sometimes I have to find those little critters inside my head that are saying "Shut up, shut up, shut up!!!..." and tell them "No, YOU shut up!"

Sometimes I get there in stages. I say I want to talk about "X" then get one or two things about "X" out, and we keep going until it finally starts to resemble what I wished I could just waltz right in, sit right down, and open right up and say.
Thanks for this!
googley