There are many shallow men who are attracted to large boobs, and then there are some men who are deep who just still love large boobs. Both of these groups combined are still the minority of men. Studies show men are attracted to nice butts first, boobs second, and legs third. Of course thats just the immediate physical attraction, not the deeper attraction that keeps people in love.
I have worked with many women with this longing, and I can tell you that for about half it fades with time, and for the other half nothing will do but a boob job. I'm sorry if this is politically incorrect, just what I have seen. And for those who were otherwise psychologically normal, the boob job solved the problem. For those who had many other self esteem issues, it really was a waste of money. Hope some tough truth helps...