Wow, that is an amazing answer, krisakira!

Time is also another one I would love, my GF doesn't spend much time at all with me.

I wish I didn't have the "touch" as my love language....it has bitten me back in very bad ways over the years. I've hurt and been hurt, had a certain guy in high school abuse me for a year with sexual crap...bad stuff. I was only 13. Also a lot of bad groping and awful drunken situations I hate remembering. I was a weak little kitten back in the day, very vulnerable, very suggestable.
That is why I crave good touch. I've never had it. Only weird scary situations that freak me out.

In regards to the pet thing, we do have a cat but she hates being held. She will sit on my lap sometimes but she is not the cuddles type. She also upsets me a lot...but that's a seperate issue.