I have it the other way around, married to a beautiful, loving woman with ADHD. Didnt realize it at first (love is truly blind), but adapted to it just fine over time. I lean towards OCD, so I put the tops on the bottles, close the kitchen cabinets, pick up the mess when its gets to a critical mass, etc. She however keeps things lively, spontaneous, and unpredictable...and for me, this is a good thing. Make your differences work and dont be resentful for something your man cant help (as long as he accepts it...which many men wont.)