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Originally Posted by carsan60612
pachyderm: Are you saying that the other person didn't express themselves because they didn't want to be vulnerable? I've wondered if she was upset to be leaving too, since she was more quiet during our last session, maybe as a defense. I'd still like to know. Maybe I should just ask her.
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All I was saying is that sometimes when other people do not treat us as we wish they would, it can be because they cannot handle us, not because we are bad.
And yes, asking is good (if you can handle the response).