(((((((((Tree))))))))))

I'm so sorry you are going through this. It is hard to loose a friend. It sounds like from your description that she may have been using you to get her needs met without providing an equal balance to the friendship. If you feel this is the case (which you may not) then it might be better off that your friendship is dissolving. Your ability to say no to her when she asks for something is a strength. I know how hard it is to loose friends. It is a painful process no matter what the reason. I hope that you have other friends who you are able to connect with and fill the void left by this friend.