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Old Feb 06, 2011, 11:49 AM
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Your friend, the Queen, has made an art out of manipulation. She is doing it now by ignoring you and leaving you to wonder why. Her behavior is about her, and it is in line with how you know she behaves, and it isn't about something you have done or not done because you have been a good friend to her.

She may be mad at the world and you are part of the world.

Even given that she could be mad at you, I wonder if you think that means the friendship is over (as decided by her), or if you are choosing to not be in the friendship any longer (decided by you, and based on what you want in friendship relationships).

Without knowing more about what is going on with her, could you leave it as it is right now: she is not communicating and you don't know why. The unknown is unknown and that's nerve-wracking but okay; you don't have to fill in the unknown, it needs to come from her.

Anyway, have a beautiful time on your family vacation!! Leave home the stuff that will be there when you get back
Thanks for this!
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