Yes, please try not to think about the situation and let it ruin your vacation! I suspect that other people were trying to tell you that the friendship wasn't a healthy one, anyway. A healthy one is of "give and take"--not just one-sided. I can understand why you'd be upset. I'd be, too, but in the long run, she might be doing you a favor. Obviously, I am not a therapist myself, but I suspect that your friend might have a personality disorder (clues: black and white thinking and quick to get angry with others ), and I hope that she will find a counselor to help her. You sound like a dear person. Hang in here until your T gets back!