I don't know but I am perimentapausal and had pms. I have watched and seen people reading their own things in here. Pat my sweet friend who would feed me cookies and tea if she could, is/was trying to be kind and loving to all here. The way we reacted was not altogether supportive. I get what she is saying and I am looking for the energy to welcome new folks. Already made a new friend. I assume, even now after all of my own crap that we each try our best. Let's try to assume that here? Pat was trying to spread the care. I get that andn she is right. Kudos or not does not matter, what does is that we all feel understood and cared for by at least one person here. Parker. I would love to hear from you. I got knocked out earlier too. Pl,ease everyone, remember who we are and what is in our hearts and take Pat's post as it is meant, share the comfort and the affection. It is so cool to feel someone here in cyberspace cares and "gets' you.