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Originally Posted by Can't Stop Crying
1. I need to vent....I am tired about hearing how God can heal me. If I had cancer, would they tell me that? There was no god in that room when my father was stealing my innocence
2. How do you respond to insensitive, hurtful, and/or unsupportive comments by others? It hurts to see that, what's an appropriate response?
3. How do you respond to questions about your parents (when they were your abusers) My parents are very much alive, but I have had no contact with them in years. They are dead to me, but I don't feel comfortable saying they're dead to others. Any good responses?
thanks
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!.-- YEA!!! If there is a god why would he/she allow such things to go on to little children-- and why in the heck would I want to turn to him/her for healing/comfort? How could a "god" let such horrible abuse happen to the most fragile beings? it makes me feel sick to my stomach...
2. -- Well, if it's really sincere then I try to look at where their "heart" is-- and if it's meant to be good I try and see that that is what they meant-- good and kindness... even if it doesnt' feel that way to me. I don't say anything back unless it's someone close-like a relative, then I explain how I feel and try to let them know what could make me feel better to hear.
3. I'm sorry I don't know how to deal with this either.
