So sorry for you ills. I understand. For anyone not married yet, this is why it's important to go to counseling together BEFORE you marry... and if they won't or you won't guess what?! And, wine causes migraines. You might also be suffering from silent migraines, where your body is fighting it, you just don't know it. Fibro is tough. Maybe by the time you get this, you are in pain management... it sure helps. AND if they do it right, they have included your spouse in the education process.... your marriage is quite young and very salvageable... good luck.