Sounds like you both have just been trying too hard. Sometimes we for some reason(maybe those old tapes) think we have to be the best etc. We are just people here. We get tired, we burn out.........we go too fast and expect too much too soon. Our society is too fast paced and sometimes we just need to get off that "wheel."We never think we are good enough but we are...just the way we are....the world won't fall apart if you just sit back and relax for a little. I wish I had more words to tell you that it is really o.k. Sometimes , as the expression goes we have to" Let go and let God"

And friends, sometimes they do go but then are replaced by others......I know how that is........and sometimes, and I don't have the right words exactly...we are just where we are supposed to be for now.

Hope things get better..Go slow for now...get off the world for a little...find a good corner to rest and gain back your serenity!!