well, my aunt isnt really sick, she's actully healtheir then my mom(my mom weighs at least 50 pounds more then her). i guess i just deceided to go over to her house to clean because at least at her place there isnt constant argueing. like i mentioned, i thin the reason why my mom got so mad is because she's the aunt form my dad's side of the family. she never really liked her to begin with! so i think that's the hidden reason why. she told me it was because i flat left my sister(my sister is an 18 year old girl, she can go to a dvd store by herslef) and then she gave me that whole speach about ''one of these days your gonna need your sister, and she isnt going to be there''. i think that's a whole load of BS thouh. like i said, she just got mad because i went over to help clean her ex BF's sister's house insted of her's. but you guys are right, cleaning a house has to be everyone's job.