So much pressure on youself.... wow, how can you make long term commitments on a 3 day relaionship, or did I mis-read something?? Can't you commit to get to know each other (as friends) for a while? Is it really all or nothing? I'd be unable to decide too....... Lower the stakes a little and give yourselves some breathing room is my hit. What's the rush? I don't get it. But then, I'm an old fogey.