(((((((((((michelle)))))))))))))

my heart goes out to you, and your partner.

yes, it sucks. no, its not fair.

please don't hold it in. you rant and rave all you like. we are here listening, and offering you a shoulder to bawl your eyes out on.

i'm so sorry you are both hurting so.

i wish i could wave a wand and take it away for you.

If it helps you to know, we do not live 'normal' (what is normal? perhaps 'regular'?) life either.

i hope an irl source of strength comes to you both urgently.

keep us updated in how you are.