desirae please find the help you need. there are orgainizations out there for people in your situation. battered woman is one in our area. it doesn't sound like this situation is getting better but is escalating. It doesn't appear like he is a good father to me. Please get you and your children in a safe place. You and your children are the ones you need to be taking care of now. There is help out there. Please take advantage of it.