In the USA the elders who get abused were the abusers previously.
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Originally Posted by Distressed2010
just coz he's sick, he can get away with being mean???
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No, this man needs to be taught a lesson I think. His viewpoint his whole life has been that the powerful can be abusive. Well who has the power now? I'm not saying that you should abuse him. What I am saying is that I feel that he needs to see who has the power now. You can show him with your eyes who has the power now.
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Originally Posted by Distressed2010
he doesn't appreciate what I do for him and that he abuses me.
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Call him out on his abuse when he does it. "You are abusing me and I am helping you"?
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I know people don't change
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No, this isn't true, people change when they receive consequences for their behavior.
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or tell me I'll fail in life JUST BECAUSE HE DIDN't GET HIS WAY
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I'd tell him he's full of sh..
Abusive people really piss me off.
Find your anger and take the power from it.