michelle,

I am glad that you are able to let us know what is going on and you feel safe enough to do that here. It sounds horrible what you and your partner are going through. There are many things in life that we cannot control. Your partner couldn't control the other reckless driver and you cannot control how that affected her. One thing you can control is how you deal with it and how you help her through this traumatic experience. It seems like in life it is some of our lots to go through traumatic experiences. They suck. There is nothing nice to say about them. And to relive those experiences in the form of introjects or flashbacks or body memories does not seem fair in the slightest. I know how strong of a person you are. You have been my strength more than once and I only know you over the internet. If I can draw strength over the internet, perhaps you can draw some of my strength, whatever I have, to help you through this rough patch. I know that sometime words sound cheap and shallow, but I mean all of the words that I post here. I hope you find the strength and support that you desparately need right now. If I can help you in any way possible, I would and am willing, cyber hugs, positive thoughts, prayers (only if you would like them of course). I know that sometimes it is extremely hard to pour out your soul to faceless strangers, but I know that it helps me. Again I am glad that you feel safe enough to post here. I am starting to ramble so I will quit now. Just know that I am thinking of you. Krista wants to post something to you as well so I will let her do that.

Always,

Cris from the Hotel