Hi Welcome to the Forums, you at the right place for advice, although I don't really know what to say wxcept that I am adult ADD/ADHD and I know that being easily distracted can be a problem, at times for me I have to shut off the tv wile I am on the phone, due to my inability to concentrate.

Some of what you are explaining (I am no expert) sounds like it could as well be signs of depression, depression can cause one to feel hopeless or irritable.

Please keep posting and I wish you the best in dealing with this difficult situation at home.

Take care and Best wishes

KRZYKRIS

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