First off, I am sorry you si'd after 5 weeks, that must be really hard for you.

I do have to point something out. The premise of this whole "anytime day or night" thing is totally unrealistic. What if he's in the crapper, being intimate with wife, listening his child tell a story, talking with another client on the phone, in his office with another client, really tired and in bad need of sleep....etc. Can you see how there is no way the "anytime" can work? I am sure you can call anytime, but he isn't always going to be there, it's impossible.

So I guess I am thinking why would you be upset with him, he did try, even amidst a shopping trip at home depot. Most T's would call back when they were done.

I know si well, and you really have to build up tolerance so that you have the time to talk to someone. Somehow, someway put it off, and keep putting it off until you get the contact. The other thing is you have got to make that call earlier. Before its inevitable. When you first think it. That gives you time to put it off and your T time to get to a place he can talk you down.