i think it is great your t even is willing to discuss it with you. it literally makes my t sick. he even turns green (no kidding) and he brings it up and usually changes the subject within a minute or two.

so i say kudos to your t for even handling it so well.... and i have to agree with we pow. "it is never ever the fault of someone else when we engage in si behavior.... (IMHO lol and we's)

sending safe hugs