Basically how I handle being diagnosed this and that is that once I know the diagnosis I have my therapists (Ive had 19 in over 20 years) go through the DSM latest edition with me on that disorder letting me know where each criteria fits me and where it doesnt and then I come up with various things to help me and my therapists too come up with things to do during sessions or on my own. that will take care of the problems. ( DSM IV TR stands for the Diagnostic Statistical Manual 4th edition Text Revised)