In the past I've felt like my T self-discloses too much, which at times makes me uncomfortable. I've simply accepted it because I could NEVER EVER talk to her about it.....it would feel too much like I was rejecting her and I don't want to do that.

Last night I told her how depressed I was this week. She said that she went through depression in the past. Her father (who, as she previously told me, ultimately completed suicide) came to her house and said 'Get out of the god da*n bed' and forced her to get out of the house. While she was telling me this, she started CRYING!!
She said, 'I'm going to get goofy...give me a minute'

I didn't know what to do. I looked away. I wanted to ask her why she was crying - was it because of her dad? Or thinking about her experience with depression? Something else?

I wanted to comfort her. But it occurred to me that it was starting to feel like her therapy, and not mine, so i didn't say anything.

I know I can talk to her about anything. I know I could talk to her about this and she would be cool with it. I just can't bring myself to do it. Maybe part of me likes it and doesn't want her to stop doing it?