CantStopCrying - I'm sorry that happened to you.
I have had my boundaries violated in the past as well (which is actually why I am in therapy now). Maybe I am naive to think that it could happen again. Your point is well-take though, and something I will def. stay aware of.

Lastyearisblank - she has a box of tissues in her office. I don't think she needed one though.......I can't remember. I know she got up and moved to the table where the tissue box was sitting, but all I can remember is that she took a cup that was on the table and poured water into the plant right beside it. Anyway, she wasn't sobbing...she had tears and needed a moment to stop and compose herself and stop the tears from coming. It did mess up her make up a little bit too.
I have mixed feelings about it. Maybe the part that likes it sees it as a way to even out the relationship, makes me feel like we are more 'equals' rather than 'T/client' - is that bad?