Ugh darkrunner, that is a difficult one. Does she do that often? how much disclosure does she do?
My T has disclosed that he's married and has a son with ADD. That was about it until his dad died. Then he told me that. That led to a long teary discussion about burying your father (on both our parts). That actually created a bond for me...it was good, I had never bonded with a T before. But, he didn't make it about his loss, he shared his loss but we talked a lot about my dad dying 10 yrs ago and the process...you know decisions, burial, surviving parent...etc.

So I guess I think a teary eyed T with a little self disclosure is a good thing, it sure helped me sort thru a 10 yr old issue. But I don't think it's good if your not feeling it and your watching your T with a WTF feeling.