Ooh, sorry to hear that dark. I would feel really uncomfortable too. I care a lot about my T, a few years ago she told me her mother had died and my heart went out to her. But it she wasn't over the line or anything, I know she can take care of herself. I hope you are able to bring this up with your T even though this really isn't your job. You should gently point out to her, however, that you are paying for her to take care of you, not the other way around. Good luck