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Old Feb 08, 2011, 11:58 AM
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At times she has tended to 'take over' the sessions, which I will usually allow

so as not to seem rude or selfish.
But taking back what is yours isn't rude or selfish. The other person taking it in the first place is rude and selfish. Getting it back is standing up for yourself. Actually, once I learned this it felt really good to do. I felt like I got justice for all the times in the past that selfish people took what was mine.

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You could be righ about the anniversary - that could very well have triggered her to be more emotional about it than before. I wish I had asked her about it.

Maybe that is an angle I could use to bring it up next week.
But wouldn't this make it her session and not yours?
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