Sannah it's not. And my therapist has made a point to tell me it's about what I want when I'm ready and she will wait for my cue (based on my suggestion to stop going to therapy). She told me that every other week could be ok and she thinks I'm healthy enought to not need to go every week. I have a problem with wanting people to like me. If I love/like someone I have a tendancy to do what I think they want me to do out of me feeling needy and wanting someone to like me back. Many times my interpretations of what someone is thinking is really just me doing mind reading and intepretations of what I think they think to fit my scenario in that moment. - hope that makes sense

I hope my thread isn't frustrating you.