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Originally Posted by KathyM
((Can't Stop Crying))
I'm glad you are there for him, but I would be careful in supporting his illness. You will never be able to fix this for him. Sooner or later he's going to have to take the reins and take a little responsibility for his life if he really wants a way out of his depression. 
Who ever said life was supposed to be enjoyable?  It might be one heck of a roller coaster ride, but life isn't all about amusement. It's about doing your homework and being responsible for your life, even after you graduate from school.
If he refuses to get out of bed, maybe you can tell him that being afraid to live is no excuse for wanting to die. Nobody likes doing homework and chores, but it has to be done. If he's not afraid to die, he should also have the courage to get out of bed, go to school and complete all of his assignments in life. It may not be all fun and games, but it's a wild ride nonetheless. If he gives it his all, he won't have regrets. He'll be able to reflect back on the hills and valleys of his life - and realize how much he enjoyed his adventure on Earth, despite his rough start. 
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I feel many people with depression are being enabled in their illness... all with the best intentions.
In many jobs he will be allowed to have bad days, but not bad weeks. Life does not spare you, no matter what label you use as excuse.
The more one allows themselves to dwell in their depths, in deeper they become. Sometimes one has to push through. Making up for what wasn't done is always much worse.
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