Ouch! That sucks about your Ex - not a very compassionate thing to do to say the least!
Your Sons need to see that their demands on you are totally unreasonable... Hopefully they will come around on this and other issues in time, because they only have one mother for goodness sake.
It's good to talk here... It's an accepting place, and most of us can definately relate to different parts of what you're up against.
Hope to chat soon, and, again, I'm glad that you are here! Regards, Peanut
PS. If you introduce yourself in 'general' - (or add to the 'shout out' there that I posted), more people will see it, because not everyone visits this particular forum).
<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT</font color=blue>