I have brought up transference a number of times in therapy. She seems to be a bit evasive about it. She explains it, but said it has never happened with her and another client. At least, not that she picked up on.

I have also tried to poke her about clients having romantic feelings toward their therapists. She implied that doesn't happen often and she has never had a client express that with her either.

NEW FLASH! She has one now that is (or was) experiencing both of them. I really want to talk with about it, but I feel that she is a bit closed on this topic. She has no idea that I am struggling with this. Being that I have tried to sneak this topic in during a few therapy sessions, I was hoping she would get the hint.