It could just be who is in, in defense of him. I'm not saying you're wrong for what you want, but it doesn't necessarily have to be that he doesn't love you.

Oh and btw.

You threw up a huge huge HUGE red flag to me when you mentioned several other guys that like you. In My opinion that is a big danger sign of Cheating Temptation.

You may be offended but I have been down that road, and I cheated on an ex of mine And I was the LAST person you would have thought. No one is too good not to be tempted and by allowing yourself to imagine others affections while in such a state (then again imagining others affection anytime is wrong I believe) will bring temptation and with temptation comes heartache for him AND for you.

work on bringing back the romance in your relationship and show him it doesn't have to be that way. I'm sure he will get excited again too. and don't listen to the other guys who say they like you, in fact I'd stay away from them O_O