Thanks, everyone though I don't think I deserve your praise. Check out my "apology" thread. I don't feel I belong here sometimes.

Sannah, not true. I'm getting used to EMDR now, and it was fine. I did use words and feelings because each time my T stops the buzzers, she wants to know what image I see or what I'm thinking about. Last session when we did it, my eyes were open and I got distracted by trying to look directly at her. That's another issue--my feelings for her--but I didn't have time to discuss it because I thought the other was much more important.