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Sara you said something that really strikes me... ACT outgoing... Funny, that's all that I have now-an act to sustain a short term venture. I'm actually quite outgoing, fun to be around with but how do you move past the 'out' part.

I find myself divorced after 11 years with 4 kids, on and off medication and bing drinking. Heck, I finally went to see a therapist this past summer and felt out of place there. I have made another appointment with someone else as I off medication and binging a little too often.

I've been broke by too many circumstances since my childhood to feel like I can ever make sense of me. (Lord, crying now) and all I want is to feel ok in someone else's eyes.

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I know, it's very hard to take charge of your own life. Tell me, your ex spouse, was he controlling? Do you think he helped to instill the feeling of helplessness that you experienced as a child? Did you buckle under him or compromise your integrity?
Was it him and the children that took center stage? Where were YOU, when this was all happening?

Just a few questions to look at.