well i saw the princapal and everything went well. she is going to speak to the teacher and give her all the pamphlets that i took in so she can use them in the classroom. she apoligised for the commet that the teacher made. I felt much better when i left so that was good. thanks everybody for tour support it helped me get the courage to go and do something about it and that is so unlike me normally i just crawl in my hole. thanks