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Feb 10, 2011, 06:38 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ I'm sorry this is happening to you. It sounds like this guy is "bad news." I know you love him, but even you said that he's been ignoring you for the past year. Obviously, he's been "up to something" this past year or perhaps even longer. 
I assume he's being held during this investigation ~ and I hope you are taking this time to do some serious thinking about what kind of future this marriage has. It looks to me like you're going to be spending alot of time alone in the future. Is this what you want? I don't think so. And i don't think that you should be expected to wait for however many YEARS he gets for his "play-time escapades." I know I would NOT sit at home and wait. You are young enough to still build a very happy future for yourself with SOMEONE ELSE.
Please don't reward this idiot by waiting for him. he doesn't deserve your loyalty. You've been a good wife - but he's betrayed you more than once. it's time that YOU found a life of your own. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee 
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