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rainbow8 · Feb 10, 2011, 09:16 PM

Kacey, first some

I know how hard it is to quit seeing a T you are so attached to. It happened with my first T and I was devastated until I saw another T to resolve the transference, or so I thought. It's difficult when you are so needy. I'm speaking for you, for me, and for everyone else who wants her/his T to be more than he/she can be.

There are others going through DBT who will probably respond to your concern about seeing a private T. I would guess that you will have to, though.

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I feel so lost. I have had such an intense relationship with t. I don't have many relationships in my life and it is a huge loss for me. SAD!!!!

I feel like I have lost so much. But I do feel free from the humilation and shame for wanting something more from t. That was terrible. It was like being rejected week after week. I had enough of that growing up.

So many of us go through this problem with our Ts. I wish there were an answer. Even though my T gives me a lot, I have the same problem. I had the same problem with my last T who didn't give me a lot. I don't think there's any answer, sad as that thought may be. We have to do without or learn to give what we need to ourselves. Or get some from others. But those solutions, IMO, do not solve the everlasting feeling of wanting more.