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Originally Posted by allnamestaken
I'm sorry to hear about your brother.
Please don't take anything I say the wrong way. The first thing that popped out at me is your linguistics. You say things like "at his feet" and "his replacement". You don't want the type of women that would be "at your feet". You also dont want to be anyone's "replacement". You want to be an alpha male, but you don't need to be a jerk to be one.
SOME women mistake jerky behavior as confidence. SOME women mistake cockiness for confidence. This is definitely not all women and you wouldn't want to be with women that tolerate jerky behavior. Women are attracted to confidence...the same way that men are attracted to confident women.
The funny thing is that as soon as you stop treating this as a goal that needs to be obtained it will happen naturally. Just go out and have fun with women with no intentions and no expectations. If you have trouble meeting women you should try to get a hobby that involves other people.
Try online dating...just to get back into the pool. Plentyoffish is free and has a huge userbase. Again, don't have any expectations. In fact, you should expect that only 1 out of 20 will even respond to your messages. That's just the way online dating works...it has nothing to do with you so don't feel rejected. Even if you make new female friends it will help to build your confidence.
My last suggestion is purely optional. Get a motorcycle...a newer one. It is a huge conversation starter and you will get a lot of women that want to go for rides. If riding is not for you then consider something else that will get you out of the house and having fun around other people.
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Easy for you to say to tell me this, because im apart of the 'LifeStyles of da po' and da' broke' because of this crazy recession.
I cant just go to a 'ONLINE DATING'.. Ive tried that in the past and everytime they want more and more handouts (it gets more expensive) and every woman there also expects every guy to be a MILLION DOLLAR man with a Brad Pitt or a very high profile look.
Have you ever seen a skilled nurse or a accountant married (or any white collar worker) to a welder? Im from a blue collar family thankyou, I barely graduated from Highshcool, barely got any college education, if you didnt read my first post I mentioned im very simpled minded, and get pissed on about it HARD by people like ****ing YUPPIE SNOBS. If they want to piss and look down on people, do it to these damn criminals that steal, rob, shoot, shoot up and are in prison and get out and repete the cycle at our expense, and what pisses ME OFF, they have their loved ones waiting on them with their kids waiting on them.. In other words, you have the most beautiful woman in the world, married to damn CONVICT TRASH! Lucky for me, I have a spotless record. As it is also, im living off paycheck to paycheck, and the only woman that would favor me is someone that has kids from a marriage gone bad or again their loved one is locked up, and they are soimply crack-tattoo TRASH! no thanks. I want a woman with extreme class.
So please dont tell me to just go out and 'Get a motorcycle' unless you want to help me pay the damn notes.
Im just hate my best friend because women easily choose him over me, and use me as a door mat.
One good advatadge if I have have a loving wife, she never have to cook for me or the kids, because thats MY department, I was a assistant chef. May go back into doing that, but as of late, I cant find the right place I can call a 'Home' for a job because what keeps me working at a place for so long, is friendly natured people with a sense of humor, not the job, the people! I hate working with people that are total a**holes!!!!