I feel like my T coddles me less than she used to. For example, she used to never let me skip a session -- she just would argue me out of doing that, or if I did have a real scheduling problem she would go out of her way to find me another time in the same week. But now she is more flexible about things like that. (Of course, I no longer impulsively cancel all the time just because I'm upset about stuff.)

I don't feel that she cares less, though. I just feel that she trusts me more, to not do anything really bad. I guess I used to feel that I was a very high-needs client (and I was). But I'm not any more. So I guess I feel OK about her behavior change, really.

(Just another way to look at it, maybe?)

-Far