May I ask what kind of hobbies do you have? I feel less lonely if I have some type of hobby to talk about to people. It gives me a safe topic to talk to someone about. Also, I find that having a pet helps with loneliness. I don't get many hugs so sometimes I torment my cat by hugging her when I am sad or worrying too much for my own good. A pet can sometimes make a pretty decent T because they are accepting of you no matter what. My cat sleeps with me even though I slapped her one night because I was mad that I couldn't sleep and forgot where she was in the bed and I tried to slap my mattress. She left for a while. I appologized to her and she came back to bed with me.