One more thing, having children is a huge responsiblity and there is no gaurantee that it will be a good experience. Children turn into people, some are good, some are bad, they could love us and maybe help us when we're old, but on the flip side, I see children die, get sick, dissappoint us, turn criminal...in my family I'm guessing that our genetics combined with few coping skills turn out troubled kids. Being ambivalent is no environment to welcom a child into. I know, I was raised in one.