i agree that a lot of her anger is fear. i just don't know how to help her see that. we've always been very close and i think she is afraid that i'm slipping away. and in some ways, i am. then i climb back. you know how it is. it comes waves and then there's very little activity.

i'm going over there tomorrow, day off, and help her get packed for Austin. maybe that will help things. xoxoxo pat...thanks!