He doesn't believe in therapy....he has no idea what I do there....he thinks most people that have any illness of any kind are defective....I would be embarassed to bring him.

He just called me to tell me his tension headache is subsiding....
no apology.

he was so nice when I met him. He can be nice. he can also be very mean. And he knows he's mean and doesn't care. He's told me this. I can't do this for another 30-40 years.