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Old Feb 12, 2011, 11:15 AM
helloforum helloforum is offline
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I think the root of your BDSM obsession will lie in your worry of not being wanted/loved. If you address and sort the emotional problem of feeling you are unloveable/unwanted (i'm not sure if you have low self esteem about anything?) then the sexual things you would think about would be more romantic and loving. I would address your first issues either with a therapist or online or with self help books.