I have a similar problem, though I have an extremely active sex life for my boyfriends sake. I masturbated (never orgasmed) from a young age and indulged in online fantasy etc but never was sexually attracted to PEOPLE. I love hugging kissing and being touched and love touching my boyfriend, just dont get turned on at all by regular sex. but i think mine is because my fantasies and private arousal is over extreme fetish so regular sex isnt enticing, is this the same for you OP?