There are two issues. One is your health, and the other is that of your baby. If you're not well, your baby cannot be well.

I have studied this issue at great length, and the decisions must be made on a case by case basis.

Your doctor is correct that the fetus is past the point where adverse development effects from the meds would be likely. You've got a little less than half the pregnancy yet to go. If your mental health is such that it makes sense to stabilize you with medication, that is also the best decision for the baby. That is what the experts have said.

Your doctor is properly informed, and he has told you what he thinks is best for you and the baby.

If being off your meds is a concern to you and your doctor, then it is better that you go back on them.

Your doctor will give you instructions on how best to take the meds (probably starting at a lower dose, and building over time).

I'm happy to help in any way I can. PM, or on the boards.

Lar