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Originally Posted by Leed
Bless your heart ~ This man may be hurting OTHER children as we speak!! What about her OWN children?? It's possible he may have even hurt them!!!
A child molester doesn't care who's children he hurts ~ it could be his own - he doesn't care.  This man needs to be taken off the streets!!
You should SUE him, if it's at all possible. I don't know if you can - you should check with an attorney. If it IS possible, go for it, because this guy needs to be put away.
I'm so sorry for what you have suffered. I pray to God that you have a therapist - you need someone to talk to about this. I know therapy is expensive, but it's well worth it. You DESERVE to get well - this "secret" can easily make you ill.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, my friend. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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Thank you Leed.
Funny thing is, I really don't feel he molested his own kids. But I might be wrong. I feel like he might have selectively not selected his kids because all my life he's tried to portray me as the bad one and the liar and maybe that was just part of his plan. He didn't want to do his kids coz then he'd be proven wrong. But if he only did me, then hey! she's lying. Thats just my personal feeling from what i know about this guy.
It also hurts to know that if he has done it to his own kids, someone will take action. But hey, since its just little old Sam, never mind then. I really feel that way.
See, he's the "manipulative" kind. I read a lot about this, and one of the factors was that pedophiles choose kids that are lonely and act as the only one who loves them. Well, thats what he did to me.
And yes, I know i was a kid but I still somedays tell myself, why did I take it for so long?
Why didn't i tell anyone?
Why was i so stupid?
Even my other sister, when I told her, her response was "oh gosh thats terrible. He tried to do that with me too, but I was smart, I knew what he was doing so I said no". Well she would have probably been 18 when he tried to. He caught me early at the age of 11.
Her comment really made me feel terrible for so long, I blamed myself. my dumb *****y useless & mean sister.