Thanks Tishie - I'm wondering if I should wait a little, hoping she'll forget who she told this too. Another option is for my daughter to tell her, to tell the principal. My concern is for my daughter - I don't want them saying she's the one who exaggerating, since that was their defense before.

Another part of me wonders if this is any of my business since many people from years ago, have been disciplined this way. ATM I'm not sure what or whether I should tell anyone.