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I identify so much with what you are going through!!! You wrote that we are NOT supposed to have feelings for our T. Where did you get that idea? There is no "supposed to". It is natural to have feelings for our T! My former T told me it's common for a client to "love" their T. I don't know if she meant it's transference or real feelings of love, but I think what we can feel for our T is a combination.
Your T won't be angry with you. I guarantee it!! Ts know we are likely to have these feelings for them. It's great that you were able to tell her.
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I didn't say I was in love with her, or had fantasies about her. I just told her that the feelings I was having were not comfortable for me.
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It's okay even if you DO feel that about her. That's normal too.
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I am sure she has read it by now, but has to wait for a time when she can sit down and give a proper response (that is what she calls it). She probably won't go into a lot of detail about the 'feelings'. I am sure she will just try to calm me down and let me know that it is okay to feel like that, and she is not creeped out by it.
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I'm glad you're thinking that way now. I hope your T answers your email before tomorrow so you won't have to worry anymore. I know how difficult that is!! I am struggling with waiting until Tuesday to discuss the email I wrote to my T about how much I miss her.
Good luck tomorrow. I'm sure it will be rewarding and okay!
