Awww Helley you are going through so much right now. the loss of a job is a huge life event, coupled with the loss of your marriage - another huge life event. You need to take the time and mourn both of these things...but like Reader said, hopefully you have someone to talk to....it's hard to keep all of this bottled up inside.

I know i would email or contact the lover to see what was going on. do it once and see if you get a response. if he did just receive terrible news he may just not have time to text you right now.

I hope you start feeling better soon.